Gregor, direct answer first: an HbA1c of 43 is at the very bottom edge of the prediabetes zone, it is a "keep an eye on this" signal and not a diagnosis of anything, and a single reading there is exactly why the sensible instruction is a repeat rather than an alarm. Now the detail, because the detail is genuinely reassuring here.
HbA1c is measured in mmol/mol in a lot of the world, and the common bands run roughly: below 42 normal, 42 to 47 the prediabetes or "at risk" grey zone, and 48 or above in the diabetes range where they'd want to confirm on a second test. (In the percentage units some labs use, those cut points are about 5.7 and 6.5 percent.) You're at 43, which is one unit over the line. That is not "nearly diabetic", it's "just inside a wide cautionary band that's designed to catch people early", and the whole point of the band is that it's a prompt to recheck, not to panic. A number that close to a threshold is also well within the range where normal test-to-test variation can nudge you either side of the line, which is one reason they repeat it.
On your central bafflement: fitness and a good diet lower your risk a lot, but they don't override everything. HbA1c reflects a three-month average blood glucose, and it's pushed around by genetics and family history, by age, and by things that have nothing to do with lifestyle at all. That last part matters here: HbA1c can read falsely high or falsely low in people with certain anaemias, iron deficiency, recent blood loss, some inherited haemoglobin variants, or after a big change in red-cell turnover, and endurance runners are not immune to a few of those. So a borderline value in a very fit person is genuinely worth confirming before anyone reads a story into it.
What to do in the three months: keep living exactly as you do, don't crash-diet or carb-purge in a panic (it can actually distort the picture and it won't meaningfully move a three-month average anyway), and go to the recheck. That's it. If it helps to understand what the number is and isn't measuring, the site's blood glucose and diabetes screening guide covers HbA1c specifically, and understanding your blood test results is the wider version of why one flagged line near a cut point is a recheck and not a sentence. The exception I'll flag honestly: if you develop actual symptoms in the meantime, unusual thirst, weeing far more than normal, unexplained weight loss, don't wait the three months, ring your clinician, because that changes the picture. Absent that, this is a watch-and-repeat, and most people in your exact spot recheck into the normal range or sit stable for years.